Hi, it's Kai

Welcome to my little corner of the internet :)
Please enjoy your stay. if you're having a good time, let's do something together!

(and also feel free to
& tell me what's on your mind!)

Some things I've been exploring lately:

how principles and practices shape peoples lives
how important it is to simply show up
increasing the surface area for self-connection
posture and practicing the way you show up for yourself
"trying" vs "letting things unfold"
how the world needs you to come alive
honouring yourself in connnection with others
seeing the beauty in your own fear and awkwardness

Do any of these resonate with you? Let's go for a walk and talk about it :)

Sometimes, Kai writes.

walking the tightrope

written

feelings feelings feelings

i get that she cares about me

but maybe its not in the way i am wanting

am i okay with that?

i feel like there's a physics to these emotions

i'm not stupid, i know that

there is a deep intelligence in my body

and i can choose to trust it and be empowered

when i'm with her i am finding myself fawning

i disconnect from myself in order to appease her

i lose sense of my reality

in order to be attuned to hers

but at least i shared my truth

i shared myself and my emotions

i am vulnerable and sweet in how i showed up

i loved and i gave of myself

but now that this has happened, i don't think that being more giving in this connection will be appropriate for me

i've done quite a bit of giving, emotionally

and i think now i will choose to take a step back and connect with myself

and find ways to love and honour myself

(a solo dance party is in order)

i need to find a way to reconnect with my power now that i've lost so much of it

i'm detecting the beginning of a familiar story

and i have the beautiful opportunity for myself to write a new ending

to this same old story i keep telling myself

about what i deserve in love

i gave plentifully

and now i will go home, bear my losses, and heal.

more words pls